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I Am Who God Says I Am New Year's Eve

I have spent too much of my life in my own head, beating myself up over my mistakes, worrying about my future, and stressing about things I cannot control.  Why? I know it doesn't do me any good, it robs me of joy, and it goes against what God wants for me, yet I still do it. So here is my desire for 2026 and beyond. Root myself in God's truth about who I am...
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Redemption after Destruction

Sometimes our lives feel like utter devastation. Maybe not by outward appearance, but definitely on the inside. The human heart can bear more pain than […]

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Layers of Memories: Before and After Loss

My baby turns 17 next month. His nearly six foot frame towers over me. He is looking at colleges and preparing for his driver’s test. […]

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Middle Age Hiking Tips

My husband and I enjoy hiking. More accurately, we enjoy the scenery of a wooded trail. Most of our family vacations include one or more […]

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Fathers Setting the Bar for Marriage

Working on my website this past week, I came across a very old tribute piece I wrote for my Dad. While I’m pretty biased about […]

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Summer’s Last Ditch Efforts

I live in New Jersey where school starts after Labor Day. The summer count down has one month remaining. Teachers at my school report back […]

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What’s Up With Middle Age?

So, I turned 46 this month. I am clearly middle aged.  Statistically, I’ve already lived more than half of my life, though I don’t like […]

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Parenting Adults

About the time I started college, I recall a change happening in my home. My family would all get together for some holiday and the […]

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Lessons in Grief: 3, 4, and 23 Years Later

Monday marked the 3rd anniversary of the death of our son. Unable to fall asleep, I found myself crying in the middle of the night. […]

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Discovering Myself: An Ugly Duckling Fairytale for Grown-ups

Kate’s Journal (a white diary with duckling on the front held closed by a tiny gold lock) November 18, 1983 (10 years old) Kids are […]

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Great Love Stories Don’t End With Weddings

I was 18 when I met my husband. He was 22. We began dating shortly after, and within a few months, I was in love. […]

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My Fruitless Attempts at Delegating Housework

Here are some of my fruitless attempts at getting my family to pitch in around the house:  I have also left the toilet bowl cleaner laying […]

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Finding God is Bigger in Our Sorrows

“Aslan,” said Lucy, “you’re bigger.” “That is because you are older, little one,” answered he. “Not because you are?” “I am not. But every year […]

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Sanctification as a Journey and a Conversation: Iron Sharpens Iron

I have been thinking through a lot of questions lately. Are we no longer a society that can agree to disagree? Can we respect a […]

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Give Mom What She Really Wants

I’m used to being asked what I want for Mother’s Day. Typically, I don’t have an answer. I suspect this is true for many mothers. […]

How Many Versions of Pride and Prejudice Do We Need? At Least One More

We all have our obsessions. A few minutes scrolling through your friends FB feeds will probably clue you in on what your friends are passionate […]